Let’s Sideline Stress This Holiday Season!

The holidays are in full-swing, COVID is still running rampant,  family members from out of town might be driving you a little insane, the news channel is nearly always negative, and you are beginning to feel a little overwhelmed about your New Year’s Resolutions. So, let’s talk about how we can sideline stress and keep it from getting the best of us now and throughout the year!

How do we naturally respond to stress?

Stressors – whether physical, such as a car accident, or psychological, such as constant worry about the effects of the pandemic – can trigger a cascade of hormones that causes our bodies to undergo the “fight-or-flight” response. We all know this feeling – sweaty palms, a rapid heartbeat, and an upset stomach. This natural bodily response can help us fight off a physical threat or flee to safety.

While this response may save our lives in the event of a physical threat, it is unhealthy for the body to undergo for long periods of time. When we are constantly bombarded by the psychological stressors of our day, our health can be negatively affected. In fact, long-term stress is linked to:

•       Higher risk of heart disease
•       Increased risk of obesity
•       More digestive problems
•       Heart palpitations
•       Decreased immune function
•       Memory loss
•       Insomnia
•       Depression
•       Trouble managing anger
•       Increased alcohol intake

This is why it’s important to make sure our stress is under control. With that, we have some tips on how to decrease stress!

10 Ideas to Sideline Stress:

#1 Get outside and exercise! Exercise will have immediate benefits for calming anxiety, improving sleep and improving our mental function. Read to the end of the newsletter to see more on exercise.

#2 Eat a balanced diet. This one seems obvious, but it’s the first thing to go out the window when we’re stressed. Make a menu so that when stressful nights come, you still have a plan on what to cook. Plan to include whole grains, vegetables, fruits, lean protein, and legumes in your menu. It’s always a good idea to keep some easy-to-prepare or pre-made foods on-hand for those crazy nights. (See my Instagram for weekly quick meal ideas!)

#3 Laugh out loud. Find something that makes you laugh every day. Laughter lightens your mood and cools down your stress. You’d be surprised how much a meme can brighten your day!

#4 Write down stressors. Jotting down the things that stress you will help you to prioritize what to focus on right now and what to do later. Writing it down can help you to see how your load can be shared with others. Plus, having a list will help you figure out how and if you can do anything to handle the stressor. Maybe there’s a stressor that you cannot do anything about. If that’s the case, then is the stress helpful or harmful? Think on that.

#5 Talk to family and friends. Talking to loved ones can help distract you, lighten your mood, and provide support. In addition, forming deeper connections can help you from forming addictions.

#6 Get more rest. Our bodies recharge and renew during sleep. When we get enough sleep, our mood improves and so does our ability to tackle each day.

#7 Take breaks from watching the news. The news can be intense with everything going on in the world. Instead of watching or listening to the news, take breaks to enjoy a good book or a hobby instead. OR, find a way that you can help those mentioned in the news who need help, such as the influx of refugees from Afghanistan.

#8 Connect with your community or faith-based organization. Many faiths are meeting via zoom or practicing social distancing during meetings. Reach out to those in your organizations for support and help.

#9 See a counselor. A professional will help you figure out how to manage your emotions which will help you throughout this stressful time and others to come.

#10 Schedule time to relax. Here are some ways: get a massage, enjoy a hot bath, take time to stretch your muscles or even try a relaxation exercise. Here’s one that may help:

•       Inhale through your nose slowly and deeply to the count of 10 then exhale slowly and completely to the count of ten.
  • Make sure that your stomach and abdomen expand, but your chest does not rise up.
  • Exhale through your nose, slowly and completely, also to the count of ten.
  • To help quiet your mind, concentrate fully on breathing and counting through each cycle.
•       Repeat five to ten times. Make a habit of doing this a few times each day.

And, that concludes our list of 10 things to help reduce stress. Please let us know if there is any information you are interested in hearing more about. We are happy to help in any way we can.